https://youtu.be/5LWpw3CMCEg About five years ago, I encountered a couple in the parking lot of a grocery store. They were probably in their late 70's. I remember this because I wrote it about it when I got home. The husband was fiddling around with something in the car. The wife waited for him. When he closed … Continue reading Let It Be Me
Gents - Don't be a coward. If you want to know what it means to awaken a woman's love, without the intention of loving her - because you don't quite get it, let me help you. I'm not even kidding. Send me a message. You can even do it anonymously through my contact form. Don't … Continue reading Don’t be a Coward
Give her your time & attention. When you're with her, be all there. Don't pay more attention to your phone, a football or video game (or whatever), than her. This fits nearly all women's desire to feel listened to and heard. But it becomes even more important for those of us who may have not … Continue reading Five Ways to Show Her You Care
"I could live by the light in your eyes." - Sara Bareilles
A few years ago, I had my heart broken pretty badly. My foster son was a pretty good distraction because he moved in shortly thereafter. But that heartbreak made me really leery about relationships & made me even question my ability to trust someone again. I didn’t doubt my ability to love - because I’m … Continue reading Risking Your Heart
I’ve risked it all before,Only to be crushed completely.I found you when I least expected toWhen my heart was tired - incapable ofRisk I once found easy.Meet me halfway –here in the middle.I’m waiting for you here. By Elaina M. Avalos
In that place in between, where we differ, you shine most. You can't tame wild things.
Now more than ever, I feel this in my soul. I don't have time or space in my life for those that are reckless with my heart. Don't be afraid to cut people off for wasting your time & playing fast & loose with your heart.
Sunday is the ever so weekly reminder that the work week has returned and I'm being drawn away from what I most want to be doing. It's Sunday night again. If you were here, our lazy day of rest would turn into a relaxed evening as we cook together. We would turn on the music … Continue reading Sunday Nights if You Were Here